Legislative Toolkit

Building a strong coalition is crucial for successful advocacy. This section will guide you through the process of identifying potential allies, reaching out to them, and working together effectively.

Potential Allies:

• Non-monogamous communities: Local polyamory groups, swinger communities and meetups, relationship anarchy meetups, or ethical non-monogamy support networks.

• Sex-positive and kink communities: BDSM groups, or sex-positive education organizations.

• LGBTQIA+ organizations: Community centers, advocacy groups, or pride organizations.

• Non-nuclear family structure groups: Organizations supporting single parents by choice, multi-generational families, platonic partners (often including those in the asexual or aromantic community), and/or chosen families.

• Progressive religious or spiritual communities: Unitarian Universalist churches, certain Jewish congregations, or other faith groups known for inclusive values.

• Local civil rights organizations: ACLU chapters, equal rights groups, or anti-discrimination coalitions.

• Academic institutions: Gender studies departments, sociology programs, or LGBTQIA+ student groups at local colleges or universities.

• Progressive political organizations: Local chapters of national progressive groups or grassroots activist collectives.

• Mental health professionals: Therapists or counselors specializing in relationship diversity or alternative lifestyles.

• Legal aid organizations: Groups providing legal support to marginalized communities.

Identifying Potential Allies:

• Research local organizations and community groups aligned with relationship diversity and social justice. Many national organizations may have local chapters, as well!

• Attend local events, meetups, or conferences related to non-monogamy or alternative lifestyles.

• Explore social media platforms and online forums for local groups or influential individuals in the community.

• Consult with experienced activists or community leaders for suggestions.

Reaching Out and Building Partnerships:

• Prepare a concise introduction to your cause and its importance.

• Personalize your outreach, explaining how these issues relate to the organization you’re reaching out to and why you believe they would be a valuable ally.

• Use warm introductions when possible, leveraging existing connections.

• Offer to meet in person or via video call to discuss potential collaboration in lieu of the phone; it adds a personal touch.

• Be clear about what you're asking for (e.g., endorsement, resource sharing, joint advocacy).

• Highlight mutual benefits of partnership and shared goals.

Working Together Effectively:

• Establish clear roles and responsibilities within your coalition.

• Set up regular communication channels (e.g., email lists, messaging platforms, periodic meetings).

• Create a shared document outlining coalition goals, strategies, and timelines.

• Respect each organization's unique perspective and expertise.

• Be inclusive in decision-making processes and ensure all voices are heard.

• Share resources and information openly among coalition members.

• Celebrate small victories and milestones together to maintain momentum.

• Address conflicts or disagreements promptly and respectfully.

• Regularly evaluate the coalition's progress and adjust strategies as needed.

Remember, building strong alliances takes time and effort. Be patient, persistent, and always focus on the shared goal of creating a more inclusive community. By working together, you can amplify your message and increase your chances of legislative success.