Organizing is an everyday activity.
In times of political uncertainty and social change, many of us feel called to action but aren't sure where to begin. While protests and public demonstrations are important tools for change, organizing encompasses a much broader spectrum of activities that build community power and resilience.
For those of us in the non-monogamous and relationship diversity community, we understand deeply the importance of creating supportive networks and challenging oppressive norms. The skills we've developed in building chosen families and navigating complex relationships can serve as a foundation for broader social change.
What does organizing actually look like in practice? It's probably more accessible than you think.
Supporting One Another
Sharing transportation and housing resources.
Creating support circles for friends who are struggling.
Making food for a sick or elderly neighbor.
Organizing a childcare collective
Learning Together
Starting a book club or study group.
Creating a free resource library.
Hosting a documentary screening and discussion.
Planning a skill sharing workshop.
Building Power
Forming affinity groups for community defense and emergency response.
Creating safe and inclusive spaces for community gatherings.
Forming mutual aid networks: voluntary resource and service sharing between members of a community to address common needs.
Transforming Ourselves
Unlearning internalized systems of oppression.
Building our capacity for compassion and care.
Practicing accountability and making amends.
Learning to sit with discomfort as we grow.
Dismantling Oppression
Building solidarity across movements.
Confronting discriminatory practices and language.
Creating inclusive and accessible spaces and events.
Supporting marginalized community members
Change happens when we work together to create alternatives to broken systems. Every act of community care, shared learning, mutual aid, and collective resistance brings us closer to the future we envision - one where all forms of ethical relationships are understood, accepted, and protected. The work of transformation isn't just in big moments - it's in how we show up for each other (and ourselves) every day.
For those of us with relative privilege—whether that's time, resources, education, or social capital—we have both the opportunity and the responsibility to contribute to this work. Our experience in the non-monogamy community has taught us the power of challenging societal norms and creating supportive alternatives. We can apply these same principles to broader social change.
The time for building stronger communities is now. The time for creating more inclusive spaces is now. The time for developing robust support networks is now. Start where you are. Start with what you have. This isn't about being perfect – it's about being present and committed to the long-term work of transformation.
Every one of us has something to contribute to this movement. Whether you're new to organizing or a seasoned activist, whether you have hours to give or just a few minutes, your involvement matters. Connect with others doing this work. Join one of our community circles. Start a local mutual aid network. Share your skills.
Together, we can build the more just, joyous, and loving world we deserve.
