50 Non-monogamy Conversation Prompts

Starting meaningful conversations about non-monogamy can sometimes feel like navigating uncharted waters. Whether you're exploring this path with a current partner, discussing boundaries with someone new, or simply wanting to deepen your understanding with others in your life, having thoughtful conversation starters can make all the difference. We've put together these 50 conversation prompts to help spark authentic discussions about relationship structures, boundaries, desires, and more. Use them to check in with yourself, connect with partners, or explore these topics with friends who are curious about non-monogamous relationships. Remember, there are no right or wrong answers – these prompts are simply invitations to more open and honest communication.

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Getting Started

1. What have been some of your experiences with non-monogamous relationships?

2. Are there any relationship styles that are of particular interest to you?

3. What do you think are the benefits and challenges of non-monogamous relationships?

4. How do you define trust in a non-monogamous relationship?

5. What do you think are the most important elements of communication in a non-monogamous relationship?

6. What do you think are some of the key factors for sustaining a healthy non-monogamous relationship?

7. What do you think are the biggest myths or misunderstandings about non-monogamous relationships?

8. What do you think are the biggest challenges people face when transitioning into a non-monogamous relationship?

9. How do you think a non-monogamous relationship can be successful?

10. What do you think are the biggest misconceptions about non-monogamous relationships?

11. How might nonmonogamy change the way you think about relationships?

12. How do you define non-monogamy?

13. What do you think are the pros and cons of non-monogamy?

14. Do you think love is infinite?

15. What are some of the unique dynamics that come with non-monogamous relationships?

16. What boundaries do you think are important to discuss when entering a non-monogamous relationship?

17. What do you think are the biggest differences between monogamous and non-monogamous relationships?

18. How do you think nonmonogamy can help people develop deeper connections?

19. What do you think are the most important qualities for making a non-monogamous relationship successful?

20. How do you think technology can help support non-monogamous relationships?

Getting Flirty

1. What’s the best way to flirt with someone?

2. What do you makes somebody a good kisser?

3. What’s the best way for someone to know you're interested in them?

4. What do you think is the best way to initiate consensual touch?

5. How do you think someone should go about asking someone else out on a date?

6. What do you think is the best way to show someone that you like them?

7. What is the most attractive thing somebody can do?

8. What are some things to keep in mind when flirting with someone?

9. What do you think is the best way to let someone know that you're interested in them without coming on too strong?

10. What’s something you would like to do together?

11. What's a seemingly innocent gesture that you find unexpectedly sexy?

12. How do you feel about public displays of affection, and where's your comfort line between sweet and too steamy?

13. What's a non-physical quality that instantly makes someone more attractive to you?

14. If we were to recreate a perfect date from a movie scene, which one would you choose?

15. What's something that someone's said to you that made your heart race in the best possible way?

Getting Dirty

1. What do you think is the best way to talk about sexual fantasies?

2. Is there anywhere on your body you’d like to be touched right now?

3. How do you think people can safely explore different sexual activities?

4. What do you think is the best way to talk about boundaries and consent?

5. How do you think people can get creative when it comes to sex parties?

6. How do you think people can best approach kink and BDSM activities in a safe and consensual way?

7. What do you think are the most important elements of communication when it comes to sex?

8. What do you think are the most important qualities for making a healthy sexual relationship?

9. What do you think are the biggest challenges people face when talking about sex?

10. How do you think people can create a positive sexual environment?

11. What do you think are the biggest myths about sex?

12. How do you think people can create a positive attitude towards sex?

13. How do you think people can best approach discussing sexual desires and preferences?

14. What do you think are the biggest issues when it comes to sex education?

15. What do you think are the biggest benefits of exploring different kinds of pleasure?